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The Silent Scream: Playing Fun Games while Keeping Your Sanity

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Improve your sanity through the behavior management technique of using a silent scream while playing fun and active games.

November 6, 2017 //  by Linda//  16 Comments

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Kids love playing fun games and they can learn so much from them. They learn social skills and how to follow directions, but the screaming indoors can drive you insane and ruin your hearing. I love using this behavior management technique while playing fun games.

A Fun Game for Using the Silent Scream

In Kodály teaching, these games help with important teaching concepts. In the song, “We are Dancing in the Forest”, students can practice sol, mi, and la. They can practice the rhythms of ti-ti (two eighth notes) and ta (a quarter note). They can learn to read music and can play these songs on the recorder or the ukulele.

 

We play this game by having my person of the day choose a helper. He or she is the wolf (I like using two to make the game go faster). They stand on one side of the room in my designated wolf den. The other students sing and dance while singing the song until the “wolf are you coming?” part. They then stop and cup their hands around their mouth while singing.

The wolves then either sing, “yes, we are coming” or “no, we’re not coming”. If they sing, “no we’re not coming”, the other students sing back, “why aren’t you coming?”. The wolves then sing back a reason. It might be, “we are brushing our teeth” or “we are cooking dinner”. If they say yes, then they both tag the students. When students are tagged, they go lay down in the wolf’s den. I also make the rule that if they run into the wolf’s den, they are automatically dead, to keep the kids who are dead safe. The game ends when all of the kids are “dead”. I like to remind the “dead” kids in my best “Disney pirate” voice that “Dead men tell no tales” because they can’t talk.

If you want to add tons of fun vocabulary and movement to this song, while the students stay in place, check out my “We are Dancing in the Forest” Song and Literacy Pack. 

Games are so fun and students love them, but if your students get too wild or out of control, they can drive you crazy and make students unhappy or even injure them. That is why it is so important to have rules and procedures in place to help students play safely and within a structure.

 

The Silent Scream for Behavior Management and Sanity

Students love the silent scream and it keeps my sanity.  I believe it helps them to be less crazy in their games too. I start this in Kindergarten. Kids are always amused by it. I just tell them that I don’t like screaming and I want them to do a silent scream. I demonstrate it while acting like I am screaming and I wave my hands in the air but make no noise. It takes them a little practice to get good at it, but they enjoy it.
Silent Scream for Behavior Management
Teach your students to use a silent scream for your sanity and behavior management

 

Other Rules and Procedures for Behavior Management in the Classroom

Amy past three schools, I have found it very useful to remind the students of the rules every time we play a game. I ask them to remind me of the rules. It only takes a minute but makes a huge difference. If students do not follow the rules, I stop the game and remind them again. I rarely have to stop a game.

 

Rules for Tag and Running Games

1. Don’t run like crazy people
2. Watch where you are going
3. Tag gently if we are playing a game of tag
4. Be a good sport. If you are out, go out.
5. Don’t use others as shields.

Ways to Keep Kids From Running Like Crazy People



1. Run on your heels- it slows them down
2. Choose different ways to move during the game, such as “we are tiptoeing in the forest” or “we are crawling in the forest”.

 

That One Class

Every once in a while, I have that one class that makes playing games difficult. Last year, I had one class like that. I made a rule that if anyone got hurt (I had kids who seemed to always cry like they were hurt), the game would stop. That seemed to cure this class. There was a time for them where they were not allowed to play games, but not being allowed to play games cured them.

Ideas for Distance Learning or Social distancing

We are Dancing in the Forest, as talked about above, can be playing in a couple of ways for social distancing and Distance Learning. In the classroom, you can play it where students are in one spot dancing. The teacher or a student stands in front of the classroom and turns backward. All singing and dance in their spot. When the leader turns around, the music stops and the students freeze. Anyone who is still singing is out. You can have them just sit where they are. Maybe they can take a short time out and then join again, just so students don’t get bored and cause problems. I also love having my younger student do literacy by reading a word, such as “dancing” and then doing the movement. I have a huge pack in my store that I made for them with tons of movements they can do. It can be done around the room or in place.

For distance learning, you can do the same two games, having one student watch the screen to catch a student who is still moving when it is over or using words to choose movement options.

More Fun Games

Sandra Hendrickson, of Sing, Play, Create, has written a fun post about some benefits of playing games. Be sure to go read her great blog post!

 

Read 5 Reasons to Play Bean Bag Games

 

More Behavior Management Strategies

Find more behavior management ideas by checking out my blog post on Behavior Management or my blog post on “How to Have a Successful Choir.

I hope that some of these ideas help you to be able to play fun games with your students while keeping your sanity! I’d love to hear your ideas in the comments!

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Teach your students the Silent scream for Behavior Management!

Category: Behavior management, Keeping your Sanity, Playing Fun GamesTag: Behavior Management, Classroom Management, Distance Learning, games, Games in the Music Classroom, Social Distancing

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  1. Jane Marsilio

    November 6, 2017 at 1:34 pm

    Lol! I love the Silent Scream idea as well as your game playing tips! Thank you!

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    • Linda

      November 7, 2017 at 6:27 pm

      Thank you! My kids LOVE the silent scream and it keeps my sanity!

      Reply
  2. Nancy

    July 18, 2018 at 6:30 pm

    I just realized I put my comment in the wrong place–so this is what I thought LAST NOVEMBER….hahaa…Oh my…I wish I had read this before going to school this morning! Yes. Great game. Played it at the end of the After School Choir rehearsal…but I always forget to remind them NOT to scream. Love the ‘silent scream’ idea. I also didn’t appreciate/remember how differently 5th grade boys/girls play from 2nd graders. There were 2 injuries. I hope I keep my job! One more idea (that I forgot about until after the injuries) that has been helpful: NO running–except on your heels. There are those that generously fudge and/or forget and end up running, but it does slow the game down a bit. Loved the idea about going into the wolf den.

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    • Linda

      September 1, 2018 at 5:29 pm

      Thanks for the great ideas! Have a great year and sorry it took me so long to reply to your comment. We were gone for a month this summer and I am just getting going in school.

      Reply
  3. Nancy

    July 18, 2018 at 6:31 pm

    …and I taught my granddaughter the silent scream when we were all driving in the car together–it is MAGIC!

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    • Linda

      September 1, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      I love the silent scream and so do the kids!

      Reply
  4. Nancy

    July 18, 2018 at 6:33 pm

    (sorry…one more…) When we play the wolf game they have to freeze in place when they are tagged and they can’t get freed. It makes the playing field pretty interesting!

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    • Linda

      September 1, 2018 at 5:28 pm

      Ooh! I like that. Thanks for a new idea! That will make things less crazy!

      Reply
  5. Andy

    December 17, 2018 at 7:03 pm

    Thank you for the great ideas!
    In Australia the speed limit at particular times of day, past school (in school zones) is 40km/h. I have made some 40km speed signs for around my room and tell children that we are in a school zone and the speed limit is 40km/h. We discuss why this speed limit exists etc. This really appeals to those boys who love to run and they are quick to obey for fear of being arrested or fined!

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    • Linda

      December 17, 2018 at 7:07 pm

      I LOVE that idea! Thanks for sharing!

      Reply
  6. Angela

    February 6, 2019 at 12:00 pm

    I love these suggestions and I know my children will, too; can’t wait to try the Silent Scream – great idea! Thank you so much for sharing.

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    • Linda

      July 11, 2019 at 11:25 am

      My kids love it!

      Reply
  7. Pamela Venter

    April 16, 2019 at 2:32 pm

    Wonderful ideas

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    • Linda

      July 11, 2019 at 11:23 am

      Thank you for reading!

      Reply
  8. Alisha Ross

    June 29, 2019 at 5:25 am

    What a great, thorough list of indoor activities for kids of all ages! Some brought back memories from my childhood, and some I’m excited to try with my kids. Especially as winter quickly approaches. Thanks for your work on this!

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    • Linda

      July 11, 2019 at 11:22 am

      Ah, I am so glad you liked it!

      Reply

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